Did you know that your sexual fantasies are tied to your psychological needs?
Not feeling so sexually competent? Those who fantasize about threesomes may not feel that great about themselves. Dreaming of a threesome helps to gain validation of of sexual prowess and/or to be perceived as sexually irresistible.
Are you the romantic type in your fantasy? Long, languid dinners on the beach followed by hours of lusty lovemaking? You may be seeking a desire to be loved, intimacy and connection.
Approval seeking type? BDSM may be your fantasy of choice because it delivers that escape from insight. If you enjoy the arousal through pain, this may help to increase your attention in the moment. A departure from your inner dialogue, that voice in your head may help you to feel desired.
The bottom line? Sexual fantasy can be therapeutic for the everyday stressors and psychological needs we may have at any given time. Our fantasies may change given our station in life.